In the digital age, where opinions echo across social media platforms, a contentious discussion has emerged: suggesting that "Giving back to parents should be voluntary, not obligatory". This sparked a conversation that touches the core of Filipino values. The once-unquestioned duty now faces scrutiny, and the debate rages on. But isn’t this debate more than just about obligation?

In the Filipino family, the concept of filial responsibility often carries the weight of tradition and expectation. Yet, as we navigate the currents of change, we find that the true essence of giving back to our parents flows from a source deeper than duty—it springs from love, connection, and the natural reciprocity that binds a family.

Filial love is an expression that transcends the binary of voluntary and obligatory. It is a deeply personal act, a testament to the enduring bonds that unite parents and children. It is not a debt to be repaid but a privilege to be embraced—a chance to reciprocate the care and affection that have been the bedrock of our existence.

Life is a shared journey of care. Let us remember that in the cycle of life, we are all caretakers and receivers of care. We, too, will age. Our footsteps will echo down the same hallways, and our hands will tremble like our parents’. We walk the path our parents once tread, and in time, our children will walk in our footsteps. This cycle is not about obligation; it’s about the continuity of care that flows through generations. In caring for our parents, we honor the past, enrich the present, and sow the seeds of compassion for the future. And in the warmth of our shared humanity, let us embrace the privilege of giving back to those who have given us so much.

To love, respect, and care for our parents is to speak a language that is understood by all. It is a language that does not need the words "voluntary"or “obligatory” because its vocabulary is rich with words like “devotion,” “honor,” and “affection.” It is about recognizing the value of the sacrifices made by parents and the desire to honor them in a manner that aligns with one’s personal ethics.

The fifth of the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:12), “Honor your father and your mother,” is not just a directive; it is a reminder of the sacredness of the family unit. It is a call to action that echoes across religions and cultures, urging us to recognize the sanctity of the role our parents play in our lives.

To care for our elderly parents is to ensure that the twilight of their lives is met with dignity and grace. It’s about providing comfort and solace, affirming that their years of nurturing have fostered a legacy of love that will continue to flourish.

In the Filipino family, caring for our parents is akin to a stream of water—natural, life-sustaining, and ever-flowing. The conversation is not about the labels of ‘voluntary’ or ‘obligatory.’ - it’s about recognizing the value of our elders, the wisdom they impart, and the legacy they leave behind. It’s about the deep-rooted connection, the unspoken bond, and the reciprocal flow of love that defines us as a family. 

In essence, filial love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that cannot be confined to simple terms of obligation or choice. It is a reflection of our deepest human connections and the timeless values that bind us together as families and as a society.

__________

An Asian Traveler is a blog that not only chronicles travel adventures but is also dedicated to life reflections and musings.

Good day, lovely people! 🌞 It’s been a while since I last shared something to ponder. But here I am, eager to share another day of contemplation with all of you. Let our thoughts intertwine like vines, creating a mosaic of wonder and reflection.

Have you ever stopped to consider how hurtful it would be if someone laughed at a gift you gave them? Imagine the disappointment and sadness that would wash over you. It's a feeling I wouldn't wish upon anyone.

Some individuals may come across as ungrateful or dismissive, which can be disheartening. For instance, you might hear comments like, ‘What is this? It’s so unattractive,’ or ‘This feels so cheap,’ or even ‘I can’t see myself using this.’ It’s important to remember that everyone has different tastes and preferences, and what may not appeal to one person could be treasured by another.”

Let’s be real. It’s true that some individuals might seem unappreciative or indifferent towards a gift, which can indeed be disheartening. While they may not express their disdain openly in your presence, the thought that they might mock or belittle the gesture behind your back is quite disconcerting. Such behavior can be perceived as disrespectful and insensitive, especially considering the effort and thought put into the gift. It’s important to remember that the value of a gift lies in the intention and the act of giving, rather than the recipient’s reaction.

When we give someone a gift, we are showing them that we care, that we value their presence in our lives. It's a gesture that should be cherished and respected, regardless of the price tag attached to it. The act of giving a gift is an expression of love, thoughtfulness, and consideration.

Yet, in our society, there seems to be an obsession with materialism and the idea that the value of a gift is directly proportional to its cost. This mindset is not only shallow but also hurtful. It diminishes the true essence of gift-giving and places undue importance on material possessions.

Take a moment to consider the gifts you receive, not just with your eyes, but with your heart. Before passing judgment on a gift, it’s worth taking a moment for self-reflection. Consider the kindness behind the gesture and evaluate your own actions. Ask yourself: Have I ever shown the same level of effort, value, and thoughtfulness as this person has? If the answer is no, then it’s a moment for introspection, not criticism. For every gift is a whisper of the giver’s heart, an echo of their kindness. It’s possible that their consistent generosity is simply a reflection of their thoughtful nature, and you’ve been fortunate to be on the receiving end. This moment of introspection might lead you to appreciate their kindness more deeply and inspire you to reciprocate with equal thoughtfulness in the future. Remember, the true measure of our character is not in the gifts we critique, but in the gratitude we express.

So, the next time you receive a gift, no matter how small or inexpensive it may be, remember to appreciate the gesture. Instead of focusing on what you would have preferred or what you perceive as a lack of value, think about the person who gave it to you. Think about the effort they put into finding something they thought you would enjoy, or simply to express their thoughtfulness through a gift.

And if you find yourself on the other side, as the gift-giver, remember that the value of your gift lies not in its price but in the love and care you put into choosing it. Don't let anyone's judgment or laughter diminish the significance of your gesture.  Once a gift is given, it’s out of your hands. How it’s received shouldn’t take away from your thoughtful effort.

In a world that often prioritizes material possessions and superficiality, let's strive to be different. Let's be grateful for the gifts we receive, no matter their cost, big or small, and let's show appreciation for the thoughtfulness behind them. Let's value the sentiment, not the price tag. And when you receive that expensive wallet or that handpicked wildflower, remember: both are gifts of love.

Remember to say thank you, not just with your words but with your heart. Show your appreciation, not just for the item itself but for the love and care that went into selecting it. And let's all strive to create a culture of gratitude and appreciation, where the value of a gift is measured by the sentiment behind it, not the digits on a price tag.

If you have any insights to share on this topic, I warmly invite you to contribute your thoughts in the comment section below.

April 3, 2024

As the sun dips below the horizon, casting a golden sheen over the bustling streets of Manila, a culinary oasis awaits within the storied walls of the Diamond Hotel Philippines. This 5-star sanctuary, nestled against the iconic backdrop of Manila Bay, is not just a testament to luxury accommodation but also a haven for food enthusiasts.

Corniche, the hotel's premier dining destination, is more than just a restaurant; it's an experience. Imagine starting your day with a lunch buffet surrounded by a verdant garden, complete with a picturesque rock formation and the soothing sounds of a cascading waterfall. As the culinary journey begins, Corniche transforms, offering an array of treasure options that promise to tantalize your taste buds.

Celebrating a special occasion here becomes even more delightful with promotional offers like the 50% discount my family enjoyed during my elder brother's birthday bash. Such deals are the cherry on top of an already sumptuous dining experience.

The Diamond Hotel may carry years within its walls, but it stands gracefully, having preserved the grandeur of a bygone era. Its old-world charm is a comforting embrace in the fast-paced city life of Manila. And for those who have savored their culinary delights through their online shop during the pandemic, like myself, the physical experience is a long-awaited treat.

The Corniche buffet is a constellation of flavors, each dish shining brighter than the last. From the succulent seafood selection—think clams, shrimp, and crabs—to the tender steamed chicken wrapped in lotus leaf, every dish is a masterpiece. 

 

For fish lovers, the menu offers a final wave of excitement you'll want to surf again and again with the "Salmon Tsunami." This intriguing dish lives up to its name in presentation, but the true taste adventure awaits your discovery.

 

The meal concluded with a delightful selection of desserts. I was particularly excited to try Umm Ali, a fragrant Egyptian bread pudding brimming with nuts, for the first time. Homemade ice cream provided a refreshing contrast, while the DIY halo-halo station offered a playful and interactive way to create my own favorite Filipino shaved ice dessert. Finally, the chocolate mango passion fruit mousse capped off the culinary experience with its rich decadence and a burst of tropical flavors.

Corniche is renowned not just for its food but also for its ambiance. The restaurant's diverse lineup of dishes—from roast meats to fresh sushi—has garnered rave reviews, and it's easy to see why. It's a place where every palate finds its match, and every meal feels like a celebration.

Easter Elegance and Lobby Luxuries

The hotel's commitment to detail doesn't end at the dining table. Gone are the days of generic holiday decorations. Here, the hotel's dedication to detail shines through with a captivating Easter tree. It's an explosion of spring colors – ornately decorated bunnies and eggs in various styles nestled amidst a cascade of flowers. This delightful centerpiece elevates the hotel's already stunning interior, weaving delightful Easter magic into the very essence of the space.

 

But the sensory delights don't end there. As you step inside the lobby, be sure to look up and marvel at the mesmerizing, colorful ceiling – an unexpected artistic touch that infuses the space with a whimsical charm.

Ditch the ordinary hotel lobby fare and indulge in sweet delights at the Lobby Lounge. This elegant spot boasts a selection of Diamond Hotel's signature cakes and pastries, alongside a la carte menu featuring their culinary specialties. Plus, they offer a curated beverage menu to perfectly complement your sweet or savory cravings.

 

You can find serenity at the Diamond Hotel's swimming pool. The tranquility of the pool is accentuated by the gentle cascading waterfalls, while the towering hotel itself becomes a majestic backdrop, creating a picture-perfect oasis in the heart of the city.

On this joyous season of Easter and the light of Christ's resurrection, I send you my warmest greetings. May your day be filled with the vivid hues of painted eggs, the sweetness of festive treats, and the refreshing vibrancy of a summer breeze. Wishing you and yours an Easter celebration that’s as delightful and bright as the season itself. 🌸🐰

Watch the video below or on YouTube:

If you find yourself in Manila, let the Diamond Hotel at Roxas Boulevard corner of Dr. J. Quintos Street be your gateway to a memorable experience. Happy Easter, and may your visit to Diamond Hotel's Corniche be as sparkling and precious as its name suggests!

Diamond Hotel's  Corniche Buffet Rates: (As of April 2024)

Breakfast Buffet Daily

Php 1,380 net per person (6:00 am to 10:00 am)

Lunch Buffet Monday to Friday

Rate: Php 2,900 net per person

Dinner Buffet Monday to Thursday

Rate: Php 3,180 net per person

Friday: Seafood Night

Rate: Php 3,680 net per person

Saturday Lunch Buffet

Rate: Php 3,180 net per person

Saturday: Surf and Turf Night

Rate: Php 3,680 net per person

Sunday Lunch Buffet

Rate: Php 3,500 net per person

Sunday Dinner Buffet

Rate: Php 3,180 net per person

Nestled at the pinnacle of SM Aura Premier, the San Pedro Calungsod Chapel stands as a beacon of faith and tranquility amidst the bustling cityscape of Taguig. This unique place of worship not only offers a spiritual respite for shoppers and visitors but also holds a special place in the hearts of those who come to honor their loved ones, as many do when visiting nearby resting places.

Dedicated to the memory of the young Visayan martyr, San Pedro Calungsod, the chapel is a testament to his enduring legacy. Calungsod, who was killed in Guam in 1672 for his missionary efforts, became the first Visayan to be canonized. His beatification by Pope John Paul II on March 5, 2000, followed by his canonization by Pope Benedict XVI on October 21, 2012, at Saint Peter’s Basilica, marks him as a symbol of youthful piety and dedication.

The chapel's architecture is a modern marvel, designed to evoke a sense of spiritual awakening. Its abstract cave-like structure, with a semicircular entrance, is reminiscent of the cave of the Resurrection, symbolizing hope and renewal. The interior is adorned with gracefully designed ribs that converge towards the altar, which is backlit to create an atmosphere conducive to contemplation and prayer.

With seating for nearly 300 individuals, the chapel provides an intimate yet open space for worshipers. The natural wood and marble finishes throughout the chapel enhance its serene ambiance, while the 12 Stations of the Cross offer a journey through Christ's passion and resurrection. A statue of San Pedro Calungsod, alongside one of the Virgin Mary, stands as a focal point for prayer and veneration.

Outside the serene Chapel of San Pedro Calungsod, a photo of Saint Josemaría Escrivá stands as a silent testament to his enduring legacy. As the founder of Opus Dei, a personal prelature of the Catholic Church, Saint Josemaría championed the call to holiness in everyday life, emphasizing that everyone is called to be a saint. Canonized by the Church, his image outside the chapel serves not only as a decoration but as an inspiration for the faithful, reminding them of the sanctity attainable in ordinary vocations and the universal call to sainthood.

The chapel's mass schedule is accommodating for both regular attendees and those visiting for special occasions, with services held from Monday to Friday at 12:15  pm & 6:00 pm, Saturday at 12:15 noon, and Anticipated Sunday Mass at 4:30pm, 6:00 pm, &  7:30 pm, Sunday at 10:15 pm, 12:15 pm, 3:00 pm, 4:30 pm, 6:00 pm, and 7:30 pm. This schedule allows for flexibility in worship, ensuring that the chapel is a welcoming space for reflection at various times throughout the week. 

In summary, the San Pedro Calungsod Chapel is not just a place of worship but a sanctuary that blends faith, art, and architecture. It serves as a peaceful haven for reflection, prayer, and community gathering, all within the convenience of a major shopping mall. Whether you are seeking solace, wishing to attend mass, or simply looking for a quiet place to reflect, the chapel is a unique spiritual destination in the heart of the city.

It's like a whimsical haven nestled in the heart of Shangri-La at the Fort, where the air is slightly perfumed with the aroma of brewed coffee and the sweet scent of freshly baked pastries and the ambiance is as warm as the ovens that birth these delightful treats. Welcome to the Bake House, a charming spot that feels like a hug in café form, where every bite is a little piece of heaven.

Now, I must confess, I am utterly enchanted by the quaint and quirky. Give me a sprinkle of color, a dash of cuteness, and a buffet of eye candy, and I'm in my element. And the Bake House? It's like they peered into my soul and said, "We've got you covered."

But let's talk about the stars of the show: the cakes, breads, and pastries. Oh, the pastries! If you're like me, with a sweet tooth that's more like a sweet sabertooth, you'll understand the sheer joy that comes from a perfectly flaky pastry. And at the Bake House, flaky doesn't even begin to cover it. We're talking about layers upon layers of buttery, crumbly goodness that practically dissolve on your tongue.

Let's roll out the red carpet for the Pistachio Timber Roll, a nutty, sweet, and utterly indulgent treat that's worth every calorie. But wait, there's more! The Aligue Croissant is a revelation, with its unique blend of flavors that will have your taste buds dancing the cha-cha. And for those who like a savory twist, the Beef Pide and Seafood Escargot are like a savory symphony, each note perfectly composed to create a nice taste.

And chocolate lovers fear not, for the Bake House has heard your prayers and delivered a chocolate that's so rich, it should have its own Forbes profile.😀

Now, if you'll allow me a moment of personal indulgence, I must gush about the Dark Chocolate Bar with Almond. It's the kind of love affair that you want to shout from the rooftops. It's so good that even my elder sisters, who are notoriously picky, fell under its spell. The only tragedy? It's a hot commodity with only a limited number on display each day, and like a mirage, it sometimes vanishes just when you reach for it. But that just means I have another reason to return and trust me, I will. 

So, if you find yourself wandering through the Fort, you might want to visit the Bake House. Whether you're there to conquer your pastry goals or simply to bask in the cozy ambiance, you're in for a treat. And who knows, maybe we'll bump elbows as we reach for the last Dark Chocolate Bar with Almond. Until then, happy indulging!

Ah, lovebirds and history buffs, gather 'round as we embark on a whimsical whirlwind tour of the Manila Cathedral, a place where countless couples have plighted their troth, including us, many moons ago. Can you believe it? Time flies when you're living a love story that could rival the historical sagas of this grand edifice!

Step into the cobbled embrace of Intramuros, Manila, where the whispers of the past linger in the air, and behold the Manila Cathedral in all its architectural splendor. This isn't just a church; it's a storied phoenix that has risen from the rubble eight times since its original construction in 1571. Earthquakes, fires, wars—this cathedral has faced them all with the resilience of a seasoned warrior. If resilience had a face, it would be the Manila Cathedral's facade. 

(Note: If reading isn't your preference, feel free to skip ahead and watch the full video below, located near the end of the article or on YouTube ) However, if you're looking for more detailed information, continue reading.)

The current structure of the Manila Cathedral was completed in 1958 after it was heavily damaged during the Battle of Manila in World War II. It was designed in the Romanesque Revival of Neo-Romanesque architectural style, featuring intricate stained glass windows and a grand dome.

If the walls of the Manila Cathedral could talk, oh, the tales they would tell! From the very first Spanish mass in the Philippines to the echoes of countless 'I dos' (ours included!), this church is not just a building; it's a living chronicle. It's the E! True Hollywood Story of churches, minus the scandal.

It is more than a place of worship; it's a survivor, a historical beacon, and a testament to the indomitable Filipino spirit. Here, faith, history, and a dash of love dance in a spectacular symphony that resonates with every stone and stained-glass window.

Manila Cathedral stands as a magnificent beacon of love and devotion, its storied walls having witnessed countless unions, including the splendid day when we exchanged our vows. Many years ago, beneath its soaring vaults and stained glass windows that bathed us in kaleidoscopic light, we embarked on our lifelong journey together. Surrounded by the warmth of our entire family, the cathedral, with its grandiose architecture and sacred ambiance, offered a divine backdrop to our nuptials. Each stone and carving seemed to echo our promises of forever, making our wedding not just a momentary celebration, but an etching in the chronicles of the cathedral's history. The Manila Cathedral, with its blend of spiritual solemnity and architectural grandeur, will forever hold a cherished place in our hearts as the starting point of our beautiful odyssey.

The grandeur of the cathedral is immediately apparent at the main entrance, where visitors are greeted by imposing bronze panels measuring 1.80 meters in width and 4.24 meters in height. These panels are not merely decorative; they serve as a narrative canvas, intricately carved by the skilled Italian sculptors Alessandro Monteleone and Francesco Nagni, to chronicle significant events in the nation's history and pay homage to the Virgin Mary, reflecting the cathedral's dedication to her honor.

These carvings can be found on the church's main portal and are divided into eight panels.

The first panel shows Bishop Domingo de Salazar blessing the original church in 1579. This event marked the beginning of the cathedral's rich history.

The second panel portrays the collapse of the first stone church due to the devastating 1600 earthquake. This event was a significant setback for the cathedral, but it would rise again.

The third panel depicts an interim cathedral, which was a simple nipa hut, built after the 1645 earthquake. This temporary structure served as a place of worship while the cathedral was being rebuilt.

The fourth panel showcases the tragedy caused by the 1863 earthquake. This natural disaster caused extensive damage to the cathedral, but it would be restored once again.

The fifth panel shows the cathedral of Wood and Nipa on fire in 1583. This event highlights the challenges and hardships faced by the cathedral throughout its history.

The sixth panel depicts Bishop Diego Vasquez de Mercado consecrating the rebuilt cathedral in 1614. This moment symbolizes the resilience and determination of the church community.

The seventh panel portrays Archbishop Miguel de Poblete collecting offerings for the reconstruction of the cathedral. This event highlights the support and generosity of the faithful in rebuilding their place of worship.

The eighth and final panel represents the destruction brought about by the 1945 war. This event serves as a reminder of the cathedral's endurance and ability to rise from the ashes.

In addition to these historical depictions, the smaller door on the left side of the main door showcases Mary as the Spiritual Vessel, Seat of Wisdom, House of Gold, Tower of David, Lily of the Valley, Morning Star, Welcoming Arch, and Tower of Ivory. On the right side of the main door, the other smaller door portrays Mary as the Mystical Rose, Mirror of Justice, Ark of the Covenant, Hortus Condusus, Cliva Speciosa in Cambis, Fons Signatus, Gate of Heaven, and Fruitful Vine. 

These bronze carvings not only add to the beauty of the Manila Cathedral but also serve as a visual representation of its rich history and devotion to Mary. They provide visitors with a glimpse into the cathedral's past and the significant events that have shaped it over the centuries.

The cathedral's facade is not only adorned with statues of revered saints but it is further enhanced by their meticulous sculpting from the finest Roman travertine stone. These statues serve as a testament to the exceptional craftsmanship and attention to detail that went into their creation. Among the saints depicted, one can find the figure of St. Rose of Lima, who holds a special place as the patroness of the Philippines. Positioned to the right of St. Rose is St. Jacob the Great, another revered saint. At the bottom of the facade, one can find the statues of San Francisco Xavier, the apostle of the Indies, and Santo Policarpio, the old bishop of Smryrna. These statues not only add to the aesthetic beauty of the cathedral but also symbolize the deep-rooted Catholic faith that permeates the country.

As one steps inside, the interior of the Manila Cathedral reveals a harmonious blend of religious artistry and historical resilience. The ceiling, reminiscent of a dome, arches gracefully overhead, while the light filters through stained glass windows and mosaics, casting a kaleidoscope of colors that illuminate the marble floors and robust columns. The walls, having been restored to their former glory, echo the stories of the cathedral's past, standing as a testament to its enduring spirit.

Dominating the main altar is a two-meter-high statue of the Immaculate Conception, a central figure in Catholic theology, to whom the cathedral is dedicated. This statue is not only a religious icon but also an artistic masterpiece, symbolizing purity and grace, and serving as a focal point for the faithful who come to seek solace and inspiration within the hallowed halls of the Manila Cathedral.

The interior of the cathedral features beautiful stained glass windows depicting biblical scenes and saints, as well as intricate carvings and sculptures.

🌸Now, for the trivia enthusiasts, let's sprinkle additional facts about the Manila Cathedral:

• The Manila Cathedral is officially known as the Minor Basilica and Metropolitan Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception. Quite the mouthful, but every syllable is steeped in reverence.

• Nestled in the heart of Intramuros, this cathedral is not just a religious cornerstone; it's a historical treasure within the walled city that has stood the test of time in today's bustling Manila, making it a popular tourist attraction in the Philippines.

• And here's a modern twist: amidst the ancient aura, you'll find an x-ray baggage scanner at the entrance. That's right, this church values both the sacred and the secure, ensuring that peace prevails within its hallowed halls.

• The Manila Cathedral is the seat of the Archbishop of Manila and serves as the mother church of the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Manila.

• The cathedral has witnessed numerous significant events in Philippine history, including the country's first Mass in 1571, the proclamation of Philippine independence in 1898, and the visit of Pope Francis in 2015.

• The Manila Cathedral underwent a major restoration in the 2010s, which included seismic retrofitting to ensure its structural stability during earthquakes.

• The cathedral has been the site of significant religious events in Philippine history. It has hosted the ordination and installation of numerous archbishops and bishops, as well as the funerals of prominent figures, including former Philippine Presidents.

•.The Manila Cathedral has a rich collection of religious art and artifacts. Its interior is adorned with beautiful murals, sculptures, and religious icons, showcasing the country's rich Catholic heritage.

• The cathedral's pipe organ, installed in 1958, is one of the largest and most powerful in Southeast Asia. It has been used for various liturgical and musical performances.

• The Manila Cathedral not only serves as a place of worship but also offers visitors the opportunity to take home a piece of history with its souvenir shop located inside the church. The shop features a wide range of religious items, including rosaries, prayer cards, and statues of saints, as well as other unique gifts and souvenirs. Visitors can browse through the shop's selection of items and find the perfect memento to commemorate their visit to this iconic landmark.

• The Bells of Heaven: The cathedral houses a set of 17 bells, each named and baptized, with the oldest dating back to the 17th century. These bells have rung through the ages, witnessing the ebb and flow of history.

• Papal Blessings: The Manila Cathedral has been visited by three popes, each leaving their mark on its legacy. Pope Paul VI in 1970, Saint Pope John Paul II in 1981, and Pope Francis in 2015 have all celebrated mass within its walls, blessing it as a site of global Catholic pilgrimage.

• A Crypt of Leaders: Beneath the altar lies a crypt where archbishops of Manila are laid to rest, including the revered Cardinal Sin, a key figure in the People Power Revolution

The Manila Cathedral is a popular tourist attraction, drawing visitors from around the world who come to admire its architectural beauty and learn about its historical significance.

    Watch the video below or on YouTube:

So, whether you're a devout pilgrim, a lover of lore, or simply in search of a place where love and resilience are etched into every corner, the Manila Cathedral beckons. It's a place where you can walk in the footsteps of history, feel the pulse of the city, and maybe, just maybe, leave with stories of your own to tell.

The Manila Cathedral is not just a backdrop for photographs; it's a protagonist in the narrative of Manila, a city that, much like love itself, never stops evolving.